Saturday, September 28, 2013

Journal 6

Pg. 66 in textbook

Discussion questions:

1 & 2. The confidentality code was violated which the mother and Eric in a few ways. First, the director got all of Eric's records without the mothers permission. Also, the teacher was planning to tell all of the parents of the children in the room that Eric was a biter. The teacher also forced Eric's mother to fill out information about Erics father even though it sounds like she left his name off the forms intentionally. The director also basically diagnosed Eric with ADHD before even meeting him, and Erics teacher was also having a conversation about his physical features with another teacher.

3. I do not think the directors should have spoke about Eric's disability prior to enrollment. This resulted in Eric being labeled as a hyper child who has behavior problems. The director of Erics new center already had her mind made up about his before she had ever met him. She also self diagnosed him with ADHD.

4. I believe the new director and Erics mother should have been included in this meeting. His mother could have informed  the director of any disabilities or behavioral issues that Eric may have.

5.  I do not think it is fair to Eric to have a conversation about him with others. That would give the other children in the classroom an opportunity to talk about Eric with out him being there. I think that would be unfair.

6. I think Erics mother could have brought him to his new school and let him visit before dropping him off for an entire day. Also, I think the teacher could have helped him feel more comfortable by letting him have his Elmo doll during resting time. I also think the teacher could have spent some time getting to know Eric and she could have introduced him to the other children and encouraged them to play together.

7. I think the teachers conversation at the restaurant was out of line. I understand a teacher wondering what is going on at home when a child's behavior changes. However, this conversation could have lead his mother to be afraid that the teacher was talking about her son to a group of people. This could have resulted in Erics mother to not trust his teacher.

8. I think if this conversation was in the staff lounge in would have been different. There would not have been any potential parents around to hear the conversation. Also, it could have been more of a discussion about the cocerns of the "biters" home life rather than sounding like a hot topic for the dinner table.

9. I would apoligize to the mother and reassure her that her son would be treated fairly. I would also be sure the teacher remembers confidentaility and understanding when dealing with children. Each child is an individual and is unique in thier own way. I would also let her know she is welcome in my office any time to discuss any concerns she is having.

10. I think the mother should leave the child at that school. I do not love the school based on the scenario but the child seemed so nervous on the first day and if the teacher and director gave him a chance he may surprise them.

11. I feel that Eric deserves a fresh start with a new group of childen. If the teacher remembers we are here to help children grow and learn than I think Eric will be okay.

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